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Vaginismus discussed on TV "My fucking problem"

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At an Dutch BNN-VARA documentary "My fucking problem" about vaginismus and treatments 
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Fantastic! The subject 'vaginismus' is on TV again. Anne van Campenhout has made a personal documentary about her search for answers to her vaginismus. This takes a lot of guts! 
 
Solution is hard to find
 
Anne is a decisive woman who would very much like to have intercourse without experiencing pain. Her search is very thorough, because the answers and solution are so hard to find. She openly and sincerely shows her vulnerability. She interviews women with vaginismus, and their partners. So impressive, how they openly speak about their experiences with vaginismus as well. It has become a very intense documentary.   
 
Answer to difficult questions
 
BNN invited me, as an experience expert, specialist, and writer of the book 'How to overcome your vaginismus', to talk about this documentary. I talked to the editors about the knowledge and experiences I would like to show on TV. So that Sophie Hilbrand is able to ask me questions she doesn't really dare to ask, because they would be too intimate.  
 
Guidance helps
 
I especially want to answer those intimate questions. To show women and couples that they are not the only ones. To make them feel what kind of emotions play a part with vaginismus, and how it can affect your life in different ways. But most of all, I wanted to give them hope and advice. I had vaginismus, nothing could go into my vagina, but still I managed to overcome my vaginismus. So did many women who came to see me for guidance. So, this is possible for lots of women. 
 
Speaking openly about vaginismus
 
The discussion included two young women with vaginismus, a boyfriend, a sexologist, women who play a part in documentary, and me. Sophie Hilbrand was guiding the discussion. I listened to the two young women with vaginismus, and the boyfriend of one of the women with admiration.  They all were very open about their feelings and their search. So brave of them.
 
Being vulnerable
 
Two women from the documentary were also very open and honest about their feelings. I remember how I felt nauseous before the show Spuiten en Slikken, because I was so nervous. Even after the show. And how tense I was when I went to do groceries while my vulnerable story was published in the Top Sante and the local newspaper. That was really nerve wrecking, because what would be the reaction of people I knew, and of the people I didn't know? Because all of a sudden, a lot of people knew that I had had vaginismus. To be honest: I only received positive reactions.  

Asking questions
 
After the discussion, you can ask the sexologist or me questions, live on the internet. You can also do this anonymously. How you can do this, is being explained during the show. I hereby invite you to do this as well. Ask me anything you like. I will answer all questions as openly as possible.  
 
You are not alone
 
Because of this documentary, many women with vaginismus, and their partners, came into contact with each other, talked to each other, during the show. This is very unique. I know from experience, that this makes women feel more supported and less alone. We are one step closer to vaginismus not being a taboo anymore. One step further in my wish to give women and couples hope, that they too are able to have enjoyable intercourse without experiencing pain. 
 
Press release
 
‘My Fucking Problem’ I a personal documentary about vaginismus by Anne van Campenhout. For Anne, penetration has been so painful for the last ten years, that it was impossible. She does have sex with her boyfriend, but always without penetration. She tried different therapies, but to no avail. Yet, she still wants to be able to, no matter what. Where does that feeling come from? Why wouldn't you be satisfied without penetration?  
 
During her search, Anne speaks to other women with vaginismus, with specialists, and her own boyfriend. One person calls it overrated, the other person calls it the highest possible goal. The movie shows the impact of a painful vagina, and examines the question: how important ís penetration? Can Anne accept the fact that maybe she will never be able to experience penetration?  

 
The broadcasting of ‘My fucking problem’ was on March 8, on BNN NPO3, at 8:30 pm. Following this movie, this theme was discussed by Sophie Hilbrand, experience experts, and a sexologist.

The documentary and the discussion afterwards, is often being replayed. You can watch the live broadcasting where I have answered questions of viewers here.

​This blog has been written for the website gezondtotaal.nl.

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  • Home
  • Vaginismus
    • What is vaginismus
    • With whom does pain during sex occur
    • How often does vaginismus and pain during sex occur
    • Causes of pain during sex
    • Feelings you have when you experience pain during sex
  • Video tips
    • What moves Jacqueline
    • What to expect during coaching
    • Approach that leads to good results
    • Why open about own experience
    • What is the effect of stress on vaginismus and pain with sex
    • Two ways to deal with stress
    • Simple short relaxation exercise
    • Overcoming fear of the penis
    • Not stretching, but relaxing your vagina
    • How defecating and urinating the right way can help with vaginismus and pain during sex
    • Technique on how to insert a finger into your vagina
    • Tip for men
  • About me
    • Who is Jacqueline van de Bilt
    • How I overcame my vaginismus
    • Coaching method for pain during sex
    • Experiences from clients with my coaching
  • Book
    • Buy book "How to overcome your vaginismus"
    • Responses book "How to overcome your vaginismus"
  • Activities
    • Coaching for vaginismus and pain during sex
    • Consultation hour on WhatsApp about pain during sex
    • Interview methodology and approach
    • Seminar and training methodoloy pain during sex
  • Fees
  • Media
    • Instagram live with Nick Vernola form Atlanta Physical Therapy Media
    • Article Marie Claire CO UK vaginismus
    • Article The Sun CO UK my answers to embarrassing female sex questions
  • Tools
    • Lubricant and coconut oil
    • Toys
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Dutch
    • Home
    • Vaginisme >
      • Wat is vaginisme
      • Bij wie komt pijn bij seks voor
      • Hoe vaak komt pijn bij seks voor.
      • Oorzaken van pijn bij seks
      • Gevoelens wanneer je pijn hebt bij seks
    • Filmpjes met tips >
      • Waardoor Jacqueline ontroerd raakt
      • Wat kun je verwachten tijdens coaching
      • Benadering die goede resultaten geeft
      • Waarom open over eigen ervaring
      • Wat is stress en hoe ontstaan stressklachten
      • Welk effect heeft stress op vaginisme en pijn bij seks
      • Twee manieren hoe je om kunt gaan met stress
      • Eenvoudige ontspanningsoefening
      • Angst voor de penis overwinnen
      • Je vagina niet oprekken, maar ontspannen!!
      • Hoe goed poepen en plassen kan helpen bij vaginisme en pijn bij seks
      • Techniek hoe je een vinger in je vagina kunt brengen
      • Tip voor mannen
    • Over mij >
      • Coaching bij vaginisme en pijn bij seks
      • Wie is Jacqueline van de Bilt
      • Hoe ik mijn vaginisme overwon
      • Werkwijze coaching pijn bij seks
      • Ervaringen van clienten over mijn coaching pijn bij seks
    • Activiteiten >
      • Interview methodiek en benadering
      • App spreekuur over pijn bij seks
      • Lezingen en workshops over seksualiteit >
        • Lezing Bekkenbodemklachten Hoe los je deze op
        • Workshop ontspannen en vrij genieten van je seksualiteit
      • Gastspreker over mijn expertise bij vaginisme
      • Lezing en training methodiek pijn bij seks
    • Boek >
      • Boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME" kopen
      • Boekpresentatie "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME"
      • Recensies boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME" >
        • Reacties boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME"
        • Recensie boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME" in tijdschrift voor seksuologie
        • Recensie boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME" VOG magazine
        • Recensie in krant boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME"
    • Tarief
    • Media >
      • Pijn bij seks en methodiek in blad ONKRUID
      • Vaginisme en mijn late ontmaagding in blad LIBELLE
      • TV gastspreker KOFFIETIJD Vocale vulvitus en vaginisme
      • Mijn methodiek en ervaring in blad MIJN GEHEIM
      • TV gastspreker en Q&A na documentaire "MY FUCKING PROBLEM"
      • TV gastspreker programma INGEZOEMD over pijn bij vrijen en behandeling
      • Dialoog over visie op vaginisme
      • TV gastspreker in programma Spuiten en Slikken vaginisme open besproken
      • Open over het overwinnen van mijn vaginisme in blad de TOP SANTE
      • Vaginisme en zelfbeeld in blad BEHAVE
      • Vaginisme en media in nieuwsbrief YILA
    • Blog >
      • Schamen en vaginisme
      • Vaginisme op tv
      • Reactie winnares boek "OVERWIN JE VAGINISME"
      • Kunnen harde seksuele woorden vaginisme veroorzaken?
      • Waarom gemeenschap met pijn?
      • Geschrokken man die zich schuldig voelt
      • Waarom als expert zo open over je eigen ervaring met overwinnen vaginisme
    • Hulpmiddelen >
      • Glijmiddel en kokosnootolie
      • Speeltjes
    • Contact