Tip for men

What can you do as a partner to help

Whenever there is a partner, this person always takes part in the coaching at least once. They are often quite nervous about what to expect. After the conversation, they often tell me it wasn't so bad, and that they learned a lot about what can help them solve their painful intercourse together. In the video, I talk about an important aspect for men. 

​In my book "How to overcome your vaginismus", I wrote an entire chapter about the effect of communication between partners, and the effect on actions and results. 
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Both men and women are surprised to learn that they both pretty much have the same kind of emotions and impeding fears, when it comes to painful intercourse. You can read more about this on the page Feelings. ​