I frequently receive questions about the tools I recommend to women with vaginismus and pain during sex. Finding the right product depends on various things. What phase you're in, how you feel when you touch or look at the product. This is different for each person. That's why I put together a list of products that I have tested, and that many of the women I coach enjoy using.
Choose a product that's right for you, and makes you feel good. In my book "How to overcome your vaginismus", I talk more about the different lubricants, and how to make the right choice for a toy.