Do you share your experiences with sex with your friends?
Perhaps you share everything with your friends, but often not about your experiences with sex. That is, what I hear from many woman I have talked to.
Me and some of my friends do. We enjoy exchanging experiences. Especially with a lot of details. Then we try it out at home. To come to the conclusion that what we find nice and pleasant is sometimes different.
Laughter bursts can often be heard during these appointments. Surprised faces of bystanders. Sometimes silent people next to us who we see are listening. Yes, me and my friends are having fun.
This was of course not the case at one time. Yes, a long time ago. At that time we still had lame hands and jaws. We found satisfying our boyfriends at the time exhausting. We wanted more pleasure for ourselves.
We decided there had to be more to be gained.
Everyone went to investigate. In books, because there was no internet at the time. We tried and shared our experiences afterwards. Learning new techniques that we enjoyed. But we also learned to focus not only on the other but also on ourselves. What we liked, how we could feel satisfied
Feeling free, being less focused, being creative and playful, that was the key we learned.
How beautiful and so nice it would be if more women would be able to talk openly and honestly about this topic with a lot of detail, with their friends.
Jacqueline van de Bilt, Alphen aan den Rijn The Netherlands (+31) (0)6-49088912 firstname.lastname@example.org