Her boss said you've become so open and accessible

Not only your vagina opens up during overcoming vaginismus.

• How closed are you?
• Do you want to be in control of everything?

Janneke, a tense, beautiful young woman sat across from me.
"I have vaginismus," she said.
Nervous giggly she ask me: "Can you help me?"

She would like a relationship. She dates men regularly, but as soon as they get closer and things get a bit more serious, she holds it off. She is afraid of what could happen then.

We make a step-by-step plan.
She follows it up and does every step. She's on a mission. She wants to get rid of it.

With every appointment I see her change.
Her face starts to speak more.
Her view is more open.
Her posture becomes more upright.
She smiles more.
Discusses the completed assignments with more enthusiasm.
She becomes more curious about the next step.

She told me after a number of consults: "I had a performance appraisal and my boss said," I don't know what happened to you in recent months, but you've become more open, colleagues come to you more easily. I also see that your colleagues regularly ask you for help. Nice to see. "

​"Nice, huh," says Janneke with a smile.

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