Do women with vaginismus orgasm more easily? blog
• Are you creative when it comes to your sex life? • Do you like trying different things with sex?
A long time ago I heard that women with vaginismus often orgasm more easily than other women. This would be because the sex life of these women is more varied and creative, because it’s not possible to have intercourse.
Is this so?
How it was with me when I still had vaginismus? No, I was not creative in sex, but I did become over the years.
It started from some kind of necessity. I didn't want to lose the partners. I couldn't do something that I then thought all other women could do. I had to compensate for this, I thought at the time. By getting really "good" at satisfying my partner in all kinds of ways, I wanted to compensate for intercourse failure.
Getting an orgasm has never been the problem. Alone or with a partner. I don't know whether this is easier because I had vaginismus.
But whether I would have developed this way and become sexually creative without vaginismus? I do not think so.
Jacqueline van de Bilt, Alphen aan den Rijn The Netherlands (+31) (0)6-49088912 firstname.lastname@example.org